Imagine if you were to tell someone that you have “a progressive, chronic medical condition affecting the brain.” Would you expect them to judge you? Probably not. Instead, an outpouring of sympathy and concern would likely follow.
But, if you were to tell them you have an addiction, chances are you would face strong judgment.
People with addiction deal with unjustified prejudice every day and it can keep them from seeking much-needed help.
Addiction is a crippling medical condition. As a caregiver or loved one, knowing the signs of addiction is an important first step in aiding in the treatment process and journey to recovery.
Opioids are chemicals that bind to receptors in your brain, gastrointestinal tract and other organs in your body. These drugs have a painkilling effect that’s achieved by decreasing your body’s perception of and reaction to pain as well as increasing your body’s pain tolerance.
Some social symptoms of opioid dependence include:
• Isolation.
• Problems with school or work.
• Loss of friendships.
Some physical symptoms could include:
• Mood swings.
• Depression.
• Anger.
Supporting a loved one living with an opioid addiction and encouraging them to seek help can be difficult. The key is not to give up. Keep the following in mind:
1. A difficult conversation. Your loved one may feel (s)he doesn’t have a problem, (s)he may feel embarrassed talking about it, or (s)he may fear the consequences of the addiction. Start the conversation and listen, let your loved one know you are offering your full support.
2. Establish trust. You need to establish trust to get the person thinking about change. Make sure (s)he knows (s)he can depend on you.
3. Ask for help. Seek professional medical assistance, peer-support or counselling – this will emphasize that you’re fully behind your loved one’s recovery. Establishing a strong support network can play an important part in treatment success.
4. Communicate. Speak honestly and openly. Be frank about your feelings and boundaries. And be clear that you are the support system, but know that seeking help is ultimately his or her decision.
